(Only Be Afraid Of Standing Still)
Managing your past is more than deciding how to think about it. Your thinking is your only connection to your past. What you access in your past depends on how you think of it. When you change your thinking, you also change what you access. It is very similar to how you access a radio station. What broadcast you access depends on what station you have tuned into. If you don’t like the broadcast, you simply change the station. Just as it is not usually necessary for you to change the program on the radio, it is also not necessary for you to rewrite your past. When you switch your thinking, you no longer get the same messages. With time, those particular aspects of your past will wither from disuse.
You may choose to ignore your past. This is feasible and without adverse affects. Since your past is imbedded in your present, you do not have to pay any special attention to the past. You succeed purely by dealing with the present. For this reason, where you have been is not nearly as important as where you are going. read more 
